It is now well known that black parents must eventually have "the talk 
" with each of their children to explain how they must behave to survive an encounter with police. There are zillions of lesser worries unknown to the privileged. You are welcome to add to my list. (The "See also" section of the Wikipedia article linked above is worth exploring.)
Worried to confront a man so cross to the other side of the street.
The landlord called. Will I have a place to sleep?
My brother's in jail. Will social service agencies recognize me as a suitable guardian for his kids?